A Young Poet

As soon as I rolled out of bed this morning, I found a notification about a poetry recital. I’ve never been one inclined towards poetry, but 2020 has made me aware of its power.

The notification was about 22 year youth poet laureate, Amanda Gorman’s recital of her “The Hill We Climb” poem this morning at Joe Biden’s inauguration. Listening to her made my hair stand on end.  She is the youngest poet laureate ever invited to a White House Inauguration. The clarity of the message from this young woman, among so many other things, was inspiring.

I shared it immediately with my daughter & the two young women I have been helping, over the last month or so, to consider how to tackle their own looming adult futures. I don’t know if they listened to it with the same admiration I did, but I hope they listened to the power of her words, the beauty of her inspiring vision, “for there is always light, if only we’re brave enough to see it. if only we’re brave enough to become it.

Mohammed Qahtani, Toastmasters World Champion of 2015, concluded his winning speech with “Words have power, words are power, words could be your power. You can change a life, inspire your nation and make up this world a beautiful place. Isn’t that what we all want it?”

Listening to Ms. Gorman recite this stirring, powerful, inspiring poem, at a point in time when not just the US, but the world needed it, was an honor and a privilege.

The full text:

When day comes, we ask ourselves, where can we find light in this never-ending shade?

The loss we carry. A sea we must wade.

We braved the belly of the beast.

We’ve learned that quiet isn’t always peace, and the norms and notions of what “just” is isn’t always justice.

And yet the dawn is ours before we knew it.

Somehow we do it.

Somehow we weathered and witnessed a nation that isn’t broken, but simply unfinished.

We, the successors of a country and a time where a skinny Black girl descended from slaves and raised by a single mother can dream of becoming president, only to find herself reciting for one.

And, yes, we are far from polished, far from pristine, but that doesn’t mean we are striving to form a union that is perfect.

We are striving to forge our union with purpose.

To compose a country committed to all cultures, colors, characters and conditions of man.

And so we lift our gaze, not to what stands between us, but what stands before us.

We close the divide because we know to put our future first, we must first put our differences aside.

We lay down our arms so we can reach out our arms to one another.

We seek harm to none and harmony for all.

Let the globe, if nothing else, say this is true.

That even as we grieved, we grew.

That even as we hurt, we hoped.

That even as we tired, we tried.

That we’ll forever be tied together, victorious.

Not because we will never again know defeat, but because we will never again sow division.

Scripture tells us to envision that everyone shall sit under their own vine and fig tree, and no one shall make them afraid.

If we’re to live up to our own time, then victory won’t lie in the blade, but in all the bridges we’ve made.

That is the promise to glade, the hill we climb, if only we dare.

It’s because being American is more than a pride we inherit.

It’s the past we step into and how we repair it.

We’ve seen a force that would shatter our nation, rather than share it.

Would destroy our country if it meant delaying democracy.

And this effort very nearly succeeded.

But while democracy can be periodically delayed, it can never be permanently defeated.

In this truth, in this faith we trust, for while we have our eyes on the future, history has its eyes on us.

This is the era of just redemption.

We feared at its inception.

We did not feel prepared to be the heirs of such a terrifying hour.

But within it we found the power to author a new chapter, to offer hope and laughter to ourselves.

So, while once we asked, how could we possibly prevail over catastrophe, now we assert, how could catastrophe possibly prevail over us?

We will not march back to what was, but move to what shall be: a country that is bruised but whole, benevolent but bold, fierce and free.

We will not be turned around or interrupted by intimidation because we know our inaction and inertia will be the inheritance of the next generation, become the future.

Our blunders become their burdens.

But one thing is certain.

If we merge mercy with might, and might with right, then love becomes our legacy and change our children’s birthright.

So let us leave behind a country better than the one we were left.

Every breath from my bronze-pounded chest, we will raise this wounded world into a wondrous one.

We will rise from the golden hills of the West.

We will rise from the windswept Northeast where our forefathers first realized revolution.

We will rise from the lake-rimmed cities of the Midwestern states.

We will rise from the sun-baked South.

We will rebuild, reconcile, and recover.

And every known nook of our nation and every corner called our country, our people diverse and beautiful, will emerge battered and beautiful.

When day comes, we step out of the shade of flame and unafraid.

The new dawn balloons as we free it.

For there is always light, if only we’re brave enough to see it.

If only we’re brave enough to be it.

 

Reflections Week 2 of 2021

The first working week of 2021, a week of getting “back into the groove”.

I tried something for the first time at work: not reading my emails before 3pm. I was inspired by Andrew Gelman’s 4pm rule, highlighted by Cal Newport in a blog just before Christmas.  It was surprisingly effective, at least this week, allowing me to focus for an hour at a time – Start at One  has been a good experience this week.

For long, I’ve been accused of being both a networker and a misanthrope, and those labels have made me wary of how people think of me.  During the AltMBA last year, my fellow Ravens challenged me with a very different perspective. My colleagues at work too pointed this out on multiple occasions, not to mention what Marcus Buckingham’s Standout assessment called out.  Over time, I’ve come to accept my personal superpower as a connector: of ideas, things, people etc.  I reached out to more people this week than I’ve ever done before, asking for help for a project that is personally and professionally invigorating. The response and support I got has been spectacularly beyond my wildest dreams.

I committed to a few young people, just before New Year, that I’d help them understand money and personal finance. We’d done an hour-long session (sometimes more) every day during the break. With work starting this week, I was concerned that I’d not have the energy or time to do it. Knowing that they depend on me being there meant I showed up no matter how I felt, at the scheduled hour every day this week.

Despite the friction I’ve introduced for online reading, I haven’t had any FOMO. With the added restriction of only an hour of reading and sharing links a day, I’ll have to either improve this sharing workflow or reduce reading.  I also finished “A Short History of Nearly Everything” this week, with plenty of time to cogitate on Bryson’s science storytelling.

There’s a few things I didn’t get done, or as much / as consistently as I’d have liked: Spencerian calligraphy practice, consistent thumb-picking practice (Tommy Emmanuel’s advice holds for any life skill), Yoga with Adrienne and my wife,  among others. Physical movement needs improvement definitely – a way of including walks during lunch hour.

Highlights this week

Walt Whitman’s poem “This is what you shall do” I heard tonight is wonderful inspiration.

Sal Khan’s excitement at Elon Musk’s $5m donation to the Khan Academy.  Bruce Springsteen’s story of showing up, as told by Seth Godin. We are what we remember.  The Perils of Downsizing (especially when you discard something you can’t live without – like books).  Two brilliant presentations about Using R in FinanceGood Leadership is About Asking Good Questions from John Hagel. Dog-walking and associated humorMiroslav Tadic & Yvette Holzwarth Living Room Concert. A magnificent sunset captured rather poorly from the backyard on my phone.



Leadership Lessons from Music: Interpretations Class, Benjamin Zander

I’ve linked to Benjamin Zander’s TED talk before but I’ve never shared his fascinating “Interpretations of Music, Lessons For Life” sessions.  Putthing that to right here today.

I’ve been hooked – pun intended – on these for a long time, & for very good reason. Watch this incredible transformation in a young musician’s performance – indeed his whole persona –  after Zander introduces some ideas, encourages him to consider them while performing, how to interpret written music & bring it to life, & to focus on the receivers needs rather than his own.

Zander’s personality is infectious: his zest for life, for bringing music to life, & for helping young musicians discover the possibilities when then use their whole selves as the instrument from which great stories are musically told.  I love his ability to provide feedback – appreciation, evaluation & coaching – throughout, using anecdotes, his own experience & often demonstrating using the piano.

Be mesmerized.

Why do Big Tech keep changing their UI?

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Move a button from here to the opposite side of the screen. Change the color of that other button. Hide things when you move the mouse.  Ask users to confirm they really want to do that action they just clicked on.  Ad infinitum.

None of these are (particularly) hard for those of us who work with these modern technologies every day. For most of us anyway. A little bit of getting used to, & it’s soon second nature.

But when you are not a technologist, are in your 60’s (& I’m not being ageist here, just recounting my recent experiences), and your eyesight isn’t what it used to be, and you’re relying on your memory of how things worked yesterday with all this newfangled technology that is supposed to connect you to the world – or at least your world, these “little” or “minor” changes are deliberately, diabolically done to make you lose your mind.

I wish all these services had a user-interface specifically designed for older folks, that was enabled by default when you signed on to the service (you ask me for my Date of Birth, what on earth for?), with AN OPTION to switch to the swanky, constantly changing UI the youngsters use.  I wish the UI designer considered THEIR older relatives, & the vagaries of age & “remote help” when changing pixels around.

Video calling is a particular nightmare, if you want them to screen share so you can see what they see.  Text that is in grey that is not so different from an option that is greyed out (I remember Dave Winer ranting about the fad towards light grey text a while ago).

I can only wish.

Until then, I (& anyone else) who need to help their older relatives have to rely on a lot of patience, time, careful listening, very specific instructions & a million other things so that they can continue to remain connected.

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Start at One

Today was the first day of work, after a long, much desired break to what was a forgettable year.  And I found myself becoming distracted often.

Leo Babauta, in his blog “A New Year is a Beautiful Fresh Start” mentions this phrase his Zen teacher told him.  Among other things, when meditating, you will find your mind wandering rather than focusing on your breath. The  suggestion is to start afresh, start at one.

It’s an idea I’ve heard before, cerebrally understood and practically discarded.

But today, I put it to use.

Yes, every New Year is a beautiful fresh start.

So is every day.

And so is every hour. And every minute. And every moment.

The mantra I borrowed from Leo was useful in the moment.

Today has been wonderful.

Rivers of News

I’ve created a menu on this blog for “Rivers” – a link to Dave Winer‘s Rivers Much like sitting on the banks of a stream, watching the world flow by.

Eventually, I hope to learn how to create/ curate my own river of news, currently like my Feedbro aggregator.

Reflections Week 1 of 2021

“Most people overestimate what they can do in a day, and underestimate what they can do in a month. We overestimate what we can do in a year, and underestimate what we can accomplish in a decade.” by Matthew Kelly from the book The Long View”

A full week of 2021 has gone by, & how unceremoniously quickly!

I’ve had plenty of sleep & rest, without feeling guilty about it. And that has been worth a lot to me, especially after the distinct lack of meaningful rest throughout last year. The kids were/are off school, I’ve had an extended holiday break, no visitors or major projects to tackle.

I’ve written something everyday, be that in my journal or here on the blog. I’ve picked up my calligraphy pens every day & given them a little workout. I’ve connected with a few more people this week, conversations over the phone. I’ve invested time every evening on some meaningful discussions / learning with some young people over video. Some yoga in the mornings, a couple of days of walks, some {very little 🙂 } gardening, lots of reading, and lots of thinking.

I’ve been grumpy on occasion, & felt despondent when I found out about the goings-on in the US.  Life in the family has continued as it inexorably does – tears & cheers, birthdays & wedding anniversaries, deaths & funerals.

I’ve listened to some great music, been inspired by some great writing, & even more by the conversations I’ve had.  I’ve discovered new people with new ideas writing everyday, thanks to this incredible tool called the Internet. I’ve gleefully also discovered how intricately connected so many of the people I now read everyday are.

Jim Rohn used to caution: “Don’t mistake activity for accomplishments”. Commercial inactivity this week has allowed me the time on my personally meaningful activities, & that has been my accomplishment.



 

The Voice from the Radio

I grew up listening to the radio. Radio Ceylon, from the Sri Lanka Broadcasting Corporation, SW2 (15748kHz?)

We didn’t have a TV at home. Instead, we grew up on a staple diet of books & radio (& of course many other analog entertainment options). Both have remained very much a part of my life, even though both the mediums have gone through a metamorphosis.

Radio is a fascinating medium. You hear a voice, & it paints a picture in your mind.  You have no idea if the picture you’ve got even vaguely resembles the owner of that voice. I started this evening thinking I’d love to find out the names & identities of all those wonderful announcers, newsreaders & radio hosts who taught me so much about how to articulate ideas in English, or curated my taste for all sorts of music.   I don’t know if SLBC still has these channels up.

A search brought up this article – & the name Victor Gunnetilleke.  I know I’m such a nerd :D)

Tonight’s been such a joy, this trip down memory lane. And many thanks to an interview Jonathon Marks did with him in 2003! I don’t know if Victor was one of the announcers, but I’m going to ask the family elders if they remember anyone in particular.

 

Introducing Friction for Improvement

The holiday season, I’ve been reviewing some of the systems I have built up over time to support my habits. This one is around my online reading habits.

Since the death of Google Reader, I’ve been using Feedly as my RSS feed  aggregator for a long time now. It’s been great because it synchronises across devices, & so I’ve always got something to read regardless of where I am.

That convenience of course has meant that I’ve gravitated towards reading whatever “new” stuff is flowing in, leaving my desire to be more intentional about what I’m consuming merely a desire.

These long holidays, I finally pulled the plug on Feedly, migrated the OPML file to Feedbro, a “local” newsreader extension for Chrome, Firefox & Edge (I use Chrome primarily).  I still have access to my newsfeeds – which I took the opportunity to prune down to half the size it was – BUT I have to sit down intentionally at the computer to read.  Feedbro doesn’t work on mobile. It doesn’t synchronise across devices, which means my primary workhorse is just one computer.  I am not as familiar with Feedbro’s features which means I’m not “saving” articles for later reading.   Just to make sure I switch across to a new system, I also deleted the Feedly app from my phone & the Feedly account (the Great App Purge of 2021 has also begun, although not as radically as Cal Newport suggests in his book Digital Minimalism).

In just a few days, I’ve reduced the number of times I’m picking up the phone to “read”.  The friction I’ve deliberately added to the process of online reading means also that I’m more likely to pick up a book. I’m currently reading Bill Bryson’s A Short History of Nearly Everything (yes, I’m late, & yes, it’s fantastic. It’ll probably be the subject of another post).

[I’ll review this system at the end of February, enough time for a new habit to have set in.]

The Public Speaking Fear Grid

Public speaking is terrifying when you do it in person. It’s even more so when you do it virtually.  2020 has been one uncomfortable year for any sort of public speaking for  me – and the one I’m most interested in improving this year.

I ended last year with a couple of presentations delivered virtually to an “unknown small audience”. When I finished, I knew immediately that I wanted to get better at this format.

John Zimmer lays out some ideas on how to tackle this very personal fear in a 2017 post, well before the days of the pandemic. Titled “The Public Speaking Fear Grid“, he also suggests a few ideas to tackle this fear head-on. I’m going to seek out a few opportunities this year to try them out.