2023-10-21 Links

Daily Reads:

QOTD:

"I have the privilege of no longer having to burn myself out to pay the bills.And I’m learning that with this privilege comes the responsibility to no longer overwork when I have the choice not to.Because we’re all interconnected. And each time I work through lunch or trade sleep for productivity or reply to an email outside of work hours, I’m normalising these things. Each time I overwork, I’m contributing to societal expectations that other women do the same.We don’t all have freedom from having to work inhumanely long hours just to get by.But if we do, let’s use our freedom to try to create a society that truly honours the needs of our minds, bodies and souls.Let’s normalise generous, nourishing lunch breaks.Let’s normalise getting enough sleep.Let’s normalise ignoring our emails out of hours.Let’s normalise unfinished to-do lists.Let’s normalise average.Let’s normalise unproductive.Let’s normalise imperfect.Let’s normalise naps.Let’s normalise play.Let’s normalise rest.🌷"
– Tracy Durnell

I agree. I’m on this boat now, too.

Music:

The White Horse Guitar Club – Wide River to Cross

2023-10-19 Links

I created an opportunity for some wonderful friends to meet, talk, and enjoy a meal together in the company of each other, despite the challenges of life. I am richer for it, and I hope they all have similar sentiments.

Daily Reads:

I probably should have known this, but I’m glad I found out now about the right way to pour beer into a glass

Nathan Baugh’s list of 77 character archetypes will come in handy in my speechwriting. Likewise with Stephanie Green’s reminder that starting with the bottomlineis a better storytelling approach in the business world.

David Cain’s write up on ways to make your mind a little more quieter resonate strongly.

QOTD:

“A king fortifies himself with a castle, a gentleman with a desk.”
– Kristin Hannah

Music:

Chet Atkins and friends (1987) goes on for an hour, and is soul-filing.

2023-10-16 Links

No reading today, other than a podcast I listened to on a walk in shockingly changing weather. There’s change in the air, and I’m looking forward to going through this storm and out into the sunshine.

Daily Reads:

Seth Godin’s Akimbo: Publish Yourself

QOTD:

“Silence is one of the most intimate things that two people can share with each other, because it’s having a trust that you’re on the same page.”

– Lex Fridman

Music:

Hauser: Air on the G String (J S Bach)

2023-10-15 Links

I began the practice a few weeks ago of writing a thousand words or so before I begin consuming content. I’ve been mostly successful at doing that – quality of that writing is entirely questionable – but the feeling of being able to put something out on paper that lives in my thoughts has been liberating.

Daily Reads:

Gaping Void: How to create an unstoppable movement

Andrew Curry kindly shared some of his facilitation resources with me. His co-authored paper (with Anthony Hodgson) is an adaptation of the Three Horizons paper from the Alchemy of Growth. Seeing in multiple horizons: Connecting Futures to Vision and Strategy His notes on workshops are here while the visual facilitation guide from h3Uni is another helpful resource. All bookmarked for use.

Jason Fried: Scatter

Lawrence Yeo: Being Poor Vs Feeling Poor What seems like a money question is actually a story question.

Ben Werdmuller articulates much of what I feel in "The Virality of Human Suffering"

Richard Merrick: Dancing With Disorder in his reflections today.

QOTD:

“Silence is one of the most intimate things that two people can share with each other, because it’s having a trust that you’re on the same page.”

– Lex Fridman

Music:

Jesse Cook: Bogota by bus

2023-10-14 Links

A veritable feast today – school term has begun, and along with that music lessons on Saturday mornings which gives me (mostly) unadulterated time to read.

Daily Reads:

Doc Searls – Stories vs Facts He refers to Scott Adams’ X from a while ago: " Facts don’t matter. What matters is how much we hate the person talking".

Kent Beck is the latest addition to my feedreader, after two stunning posts. The first one is about ChatGPT and the recalibration of the way he thinks about his skills. The second one, co-authored with Gergely Orosz, is a superb takedown of the consulting bs from McKinsey on how to measure software developer productivity.

Matt Webb’s Interconnected had this new website he’s put together that is a watering hole in Namibia, where antelopes come and go. It’s… beautiful!

OMG! The Whole Earth Catalog is available online. The backstory is here

I diss on McKinsey’s solutions, and yet appreciate their research pieces, like this one on telco talent in transition

Another HR related issue, on org design from Joshua Burgin

Erik Larson on "Five Things You Should Know about ChatGPT"

Sara Campbell: "The Fire Inside"

Seth Godin: "It could have easily gone the other way"

Ben Horowitz: The Story is the Strategy

Ness Labs: Nothing Soft About Soft Skills

QOTD:

“The real things haven’t changed. It is still best to be honest and truthful; to make the most of what we have; to be happy with simple pleasures; and have courage when things go wrong.”
– Laura Ingels Wilder

Music:

Vladimir Horowitz – Traumerei

2023-10-13 Links

Daily Reads:

Clair L Evans: Against scale. Evans takes inspiration from Nature’s way of growing without leaving a trail of destruction, while contrasting growth from scalability. HT Jeremy Keith.

Lol’d at some of these Jessica Hagy venn diagrams, When epitaphs are euphemisms

The Cult of Done is the second video from No Boilerplate that I have watched with awe.

Jeremy Connell-Waite turned Ted Sorensen’s speechwriting ideas into a splendid 5 minute video Ted Sorensen talks about inaugural addresses at Brandeis University

QOTD:

Life is just a short walk from the cradle to the grave and it sure behooves us to be kind to one another along the way.
-Alice Childress

Music:

Leonard Cohen speaks timeless words in the Anthem: There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in. One of my favourite songs.

2023-10-12 Links

Daily Reads:

Gurwinder: Overchoice & how to avoid it Some heuristics that I apply sub- or unconsciously and worth writing down in a conspicuous place.

SK Ventures: Embracing the Ourbouros as a new mental model of the technology stack infused with AI.

Giving myself permission to write even if no one ever reads it. https://werd.io/2023/spinning-a-tech-career-into-writing

QOTD:

“There is a difference between a book of two hundred pages from the very beginning, and a book of two hundred pages which is the result of an original eight hundred pages. The six hundred pages are there. Only you don’t see them.”
– Elie Wiesel

Music:

George Clements covers Kathy’s Song

2023-10-11 Links

Daily Reads:

  • Victor Frankl’s Method to Overcome Fear – Paradoxical Intention – sweating, public speaking. Fighting fear doesn’t work – simply adds pressure to the existing pressure. So how do we break this cycle?

    • "Hyper-intention" – excessive focus on achieving or preventing a particular outcome.
    • Paradox: statement seemingly contradictory, opposed to common sense.
    • Wish for the fear, rather than fight it, and you will conquer it. I want to get rid of fear vs I want to feel fear ironically gives you what you need to ignore the fear!
    • At the core is detachment, and using humor to laugh at ourselves.
  • Identify one thing in your life that you take for granted, and ask how it got that way. We take for granted the physical world, especially the built world, but everything has a backstory! Rob Walker’s excellent newsletter asks "What’s the Question"

  • Anne Kadet’s report from the Department of Personal Experimentation: One Thing at a Time, has this quote: It just makes sense that if I reduce my information intake by an hour or two everyday, my mind will quiet down faster. It’s got a lot less data to process!

  • Museum employees exhibition of their own work – this is a fascinating idea!

  • Roger Martin: Heuristics, Management, & Strategy You will often be told that you should use an algorithmic approach: crunch this data, this way, and it will tell you the answer. Be wary. Much of the business world is using algorithmic approaches that aren’t backed by the work necessary to push knowledge from heuristic to algorithm. You will be told that it will give you the ‘right answer,’ or ‘the truth.’ Audit them carefully to see whether that is hype or a valid promise.

QOTD:

The Daily Stoic quote from Marcus Aurelius, on the value of goodness and truth, made me giggle:

In short, the straightforward and good person should be like a smelly goat – you know when they are in the room with you

Music:

Isto covers Irving Berlin’s It’s a Lovely Day Today

2023-10-10 Links

Daily Reads:

Continuing re-reading the Art of Possibility.

Steve Blank’s been writing a riveting ‘secret’ history of Silicon Valley – here is Part V

Bob Ewing: The Stories we tell has some simple ideas on how to tell stories that propel us forward, rather than hold us back.

Listened to Seth Godin’s podcast Akimbo on psephology (the science of voting). I like his compelling call to action at the end of the episode – don’t leave a comment, tell someone about this!

  • 7 Japanese techniques to overcome laziness on Instagram
    • Ikigai: having a purpose in life, the reason you wake up each morning. Do what you love. Do what you’re good at. Do what the world needs. Do what you can be paid for.
    • Kaizen: Focus on small improvements every day
    • Shoshin: Approach things with a beginner’s mindset. If your mind is empty, it is open to everything. In the beginner’s mind, there are many possibilities, but in the expert’s mind, there are few. – Shunryu Suzuki.
    • Hara Hachi Bu: Stop eating after you’re 80% full.
    • Shinrin-yoku: Forest bath, spend more time in nature. Reminds me of Oji’s comment in his podcast yetserday.
    • Wabi-sabi – Find beauty in imperfection.
    • Ganbaru: Be patient and do the best possible.

QOTD:

Besides the noble art of getting things done, there is the noble art of leaving things undone. The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of nonessentials.
-Lin Yutang

Music:

Simon & Garfunkel’s Scarborough Fair Canticle