The Opposite Argument

A recent conversation with a corporate executive triggered this question. The person suggested that people at the grassroots didn’t know enough about the organisation’s strategy so the ideas they propose are a non-starter.  In the moment, I felt viscerally that the person lacked self-awareness yet had an oversized ego, had forgotten the two primary facets* of their job. I want to explore this person’s perspective, and build their argument for that statement.

Explicit:

    1. The organisation (the executive leadership specifically) is grappling with the changes in the marketplace. There are multiple dimensions to the problem. For fast response, a small group of highly qualified management professionals are working hard on understanding the problem.  People at the grassroots are unaware of these multi-dimensional problems. Therefore any ideas they have, while important to them, may not be relevant to the problem
    2. Good ideas do come from the grassroots, but they do not take an enterprise view of their implications. You need a much higher level perspective, and that awareness is only accessible to senior execs. It is impossible to convey these implications, so staff have to trust executive judgement on this.
    3. Being an executive who has deep history of the technical details, and the bird-eye view of the enterprise problem, I am aware of the problems that this idea will create for the rest of the system. Again, staff have to trust my judgement because I have got this right on multiple occasions previously. I don’t have the time to explain this at length to every person, and will exercise my decision-making authority.

Implicit: (Of course I can never know this for sure so entirely my assumptions)

    1. There’s no evidence that this idea is workable. The risk is way too much to accept.
    2. The evidence that is provided goes counter to my prior experience.
    3. If the idea works, it will make someone else look good
    4. If I have not objected to the idea in the first instance, and the idea fails, my credibility among my peers will be diminished
    5. This is not my idea
    6. This is your idea and I don’t like you/your higher-ups etc
    7. There are other ways this can be done
    8. Our competitors will use this to their advantage

Doing this exercise is illuminating – there are more implicit than explicit arguments that I can think of. If I asked the person how much of my list is valid, would I get an honest answer? Would the answer be different in a different circumstance?

* My current belief is that an exec needs to:  a. articulate the org strategy clearly so that the experts – the people actually doing the job – knew what they were aiming at; and b. use their hierarchical heft to negotiate the removal of obstacles in the path of the experts.

 

Resurrection

I invested all day in building a strategy document for the radio station, and I’m mentally drained.  I ought to write about the process, and the few things I’ve been able to accomplish today, and how frustrated I feel with the output. Yet, when someone else reads it, they think it’s fantastic. Am I underestimating myself?

Rest and resurrection, that’s what it should be called. I need it tonight.

Spencerian: Ward Cunningham



I can’t tell you how much time is spent worrying about decisions that don’t matter. To just be able to make a decision and see what happens is tremendously empowering, but that means you have to set up the situation such that when something does go wrong, you can fix it.

Execution is Hard?

Ideas are easy, execution is hard.

I agree with that sentiment, with a slight modification: executing alone is hard. Having a group of people who love the idea, have the skills to execute on them, and won’t sleep until they’ve figured out how, is useful .

I’ve seen it in action repeatedly, and this week has been another stellar demonstration of this principle. Over 70 people have now gotten involved actively in making an idea that 4 people had cooked up a few months ago. Trust, transparency, communication, purpose, a desire to prove the detractors wrong. Dozens of mavericks, that’s what I’ve managed to bring together. I’m grateful that I can see the pattern in the dots, join them, and occasionally create a ripple, if not a movement.

Spencerian: George Carlin



Religion has actually convinced people that there’s an invisible man living in the sky who watches everything you do, every minute of every day. And the invisible man has a special list of ten things he does not want you to do. And if you do any of these ten things, he has a special place, full of fire and smoke and burning and torture and anguish, where he will send you to live and suffer and burn and choke and scream and cry forever and ever ’til the end of time!
But He loves you. He loves you, and He needs money! He always needs money! He’s all-powerful, all-perfect, all-knowing, and all-wise, somehow just can’t handle money!

Finding voice

I’ve spent hours now with 4 humans to help them craft their individual, `10 minute stories at the next Talks session I’m hosting. It’s been a joy to help them express their message, and to find their voice.

I found myself using the word ‘powerful’ multiple times while re-stating what I was hearing from those conversations. I unearthed the rawest of emotion when I probed a little. My questions and paraphrasing what I heard helped them reveal what lay dormant. Buried under social niceties or years of anguish or forgotten with the passage of time.

Finding one’s voice is not easy. Being able to do this with them is a gift, and I’m lucky to be able to do it as often as I choose to do. Powerful is what it makes each one of them feel, I hope. Helping someone find their voice is deeply satisfying, and helps me find inspiration for my own life.

Hemingway Readability Score: Grade 7

Spencerian: Neil Gaiman



I’ve been making a list of the things they don’t teach you at school. They don’t teach you how to love somebody. They don’t teach you how to be famous. They don’t teach you how to be rich or how to be poor. They don’t teach you how to walk away from someone you don’t love any longer. They don’t teach you how to know what’s going on in someone else’s mind. They don’t teach you what to say to someone who’s dying. They don’t teach you anything worth knowing.

Cynicism

It’s easy to be a practised cynic. – Jim Rohn

The realisation that cynicism is also a choice has been a liberating one. Yet, that doesn’t mean that I don’t get cynical at times. Some recent experiences have earned my cynicism, but it’s a heavy burden to bear.

I’m truly grateful that every time such a feeling comes over me, inspiration is always around if I am observant. Two colleagues gave me healthy doses of inspiration with their stories today. Both couldn’t have come from more different circumstances. Both couldn’t have had more different challenges. And both inspired me to change perspective and had me in tears with their stories. Took moments, not hours.

Arthur Brooks was on Dan Pink’s Pinkcast, and his provocation to find ‘real’ friends vs ‘deal’ friends gave me pause. Thinking about it, I have so many “useless” friends. I am indeed blessed.

Spencerian: Cluetrain Manifesto



…markets are conversations. Their members communicate in language that is natural, open, honest, direct, funny and often shocking. Whether explaining or complaining, joking or serious, the human voice is unmistakably genuine. It can’t be faked.

Most corporations, on the other hand, only know how to talk in the soothing, humorless monotone of the mission statement, marketing brochure, and your-call-is-important-to-us busy signal. Same old tone, same old lies. No wonder networked markets have no respect for companies unable or unwilling to speak as they do.

Spencerian: Jiddu Krishnamurti



You cannot reconcile creativeness with technical achievement. You may be perfect in playing the piano, and not be creative. You may be able to handle color, to put paint on canvas most cleverly, and not be a creative painter…having lost the song, we pursue the singer. We learn from the singer the technique of song, but there is no song; and I say the song is essential, the joy of singing is essential. When the joy is there, the technique can be built up from nothing; you will invent your own technique, you won’t have to study elocution or style. When you have, you see, and the very seeing of beauty is an art.